Investment
RLT Couples Coaching
Paid per session
This work is months, not years. We meet weekly or every other week.
"My husband did not want to go to couples therapy. I was already almost out of the door when he finally agreed to meet with Eva. She got through to him very quickly. She has a way of getting through to men and helping them see what's actually going on with humor, kindness and directness, which my husband really appreciated. And so we got to experience change within the first couple of sessions. Now, a few months in, we're more connected than we've been in many years. Our kids feel it, too.”
- L, USA
Some are preparing for marriage. Some are finding their way back to each other after years of feeling disconnected. Others are wondering whether they can find their way back.
To feel close.
To trust each other.
To laugh together.
To feel like a team.
To create a home where everyone can thrive.
A relationship is a living ecosystem. It needs care, attention, and skills to keep growing through every stage of life. That’s exactly what we’ll practice together.
Over time, couples that work with me notice having:
• Honest conversations, even when they’re difficult.
• More laughter, affection, and everyday moments of joy.
• Intimacy that begins long before the bedroom.
• A partnership where you’re on the same team.
• A home that feels calm, connected, and welcoming.
• A family culture your children will carry into their own relationships.
We learned by watching the relationships around us. Some of those lessons helped. Others followed us into adulthood and got in the way of the relationships we want today.
Using Relational Life Therapy (RLT by Terry Real), we’ll first understand why the same moments keep repeating between you. But we won’t stop there.
I’ll coach you in real time, slowing the conversation down, helping you notice what’s happening between you, and guiding you to try something different in that very moment. Rather than simply talking about your relationship, you’ll practice new ways to communicate, repair, listen, and advocate for what you want.
“Our first session with Eva was already so eye-opening. She has a very rare combination of warmth and clarity. Eva listens deeply, asks the questions that matter, and helps you get to the root of things very quickly. Working with her has been grounding, clarifying, and transformative for our long relationship.”
- T+A, USA
This work is months, not years. We meet weekly or every other week.
Absolutely. Many couples come before marriage, after having children, or simply because they want to strengthen their relationship before bigger challenges arise. You don’t have to wait until things fall apart to learn the skills that help relationships thrive.
That’s completely okay.
In fact, it’s how many couples find me.
Over the past two decades, I’ve worked with many men in leadership and high-pressure environments. I understand that not everyone wants to spend an hour talking about feelings, and that’s not what our sessions are about.
We focus on what’s happening between you, practice new ways of responding in real time, and work toward what most people want: less conflict, more peace at home, and a stronger connection with the person they love.
Yes… sometimes.
Relational Life Therapy is different from many other approaches. If one of you is using a strategy that’s hurting the relationship, I’ll point it out and show you how to do things better. And if the other person is doing the same, I’ll challenge them too.
I’m not interested in deciding who’s “right.”
My job is to help both of you build a healthier relationship together.
Therapy often focuses on understanding the past and healing old wounds. Coaching focuses on creating change in the present.
My approach combines both. We’ll understand why certain patterns keep showing up, then practice new ways of relating together in real time, so you leave each session knowing what to do differently.
My coaching combines over 20 years of working with people, teams, and relationships with the practical, relational approach of Relational Life Therapy (RLT by Terry Real).
That means I understand not only relationships, but also stress, careers, leadership, and the pressures modern couples face.
"My partner and I were almost breaking up when we found Eva. We loved each other but couldn’t stop fighting. And when we fought, we both said things that really hurt each other. With Eva, we learned how our past was actually the one hurting our relationship. Eva taught us how to speak from what we learned is our ‘Wise Adult.’ We still have work to do, but we finally feel closer to each other, and there’s more peace at home."
- M+S, Germany
“My wife and I were already many years in therapy, but it felt mostly like sitting in the pain, not learning how to stop hurting each other. With Eva, it was something else. She helped us really see how much we damaged each other, but without giving us shame. She taught us to stop before it becomes too much, to react from a better place, and finally to speak about the things we put under the carpet for so long. For the first time, we didn’t only understand the problem. We could actually start changing it.”
- B, Germany
Relational Life Therapy Coach (Relational Life Institute) · ICF-Certified (PCC level) ·
Trauma-Informed Certified Coach (ICF)