--- title: Relationship Coaching for Couples | Come home to each other. description: Create the relationship you both want to come home to. Couples coaching using Relational Life Therapy (RLT) to build trust, connection, intimacy, and joy. --- [Skip to content](https://evagreene.com/couples#main-content) [![Greene Logo](https://evagreene.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Greene%20Logo%20compressed-1.png?width=150&height=113&name=Greene%20Logo%20compressed-1.png)Homepage](https://evagreene.com) - [About](https://evagreene.com/about) - Coaching - [Individual coaching](https://evagreene.com/yourself) - [Couples coaching](https://evagreene.com/couples) - [Work coaching](https://evagreene.com/work) - [The Group](https://evagreene.com/the-group) - [Fees & FAQs](https://evagreene.com/fees-faqs) - [Client Stories](https://evagreene.com/client-stories) [Book a free intro call](https://evagreene.com/contact) - [About](https://evagreene.com/about) - Coaching - [Individual coaching](https://evagreene.com/yourself) - [Couples coaching](https://evagreene.com/couples) - [Work coaching](https://evagreene.com/work) - [The Group](https://evagreene.com/the-group) - [Fees & FAQs](https://evagreene.com/fees-faqs) - [Client Stories](https://evagreene.com/client-stories) [Book a free intro call](https://evagreene.com/contact) # Come home to each other. # Learn the relational skills that create more trust, connection, intimacy, and joy. [Book a 20-min intro call](https://evagreene.com/contact) > #### *"My husband did not want to go to couples therapy. I was already almost out of the door when he finally agreed to meet with Eva. She got through to him very quickly. **She has a way of getting through to men and helping them see what's actually going on with humor, kindness and directness**, which my husband really appreciated. And so we got to experience change within the first couple of sessions. Now, a few months in, we're more connected than we've been in many years. Our kids feel it, too.”* *- L, USA* ## The couples I work with all start in different places... Some are preparing for marriage. Some are finding their way back to each other after years of feeling disconnected. Others are wondering whether they can find their way back. ### No matter where you’re starting, most couples want the same thing: To feel close. To trust each other. To laugh together. To feel like a team. To create a home where everyone can thrive. A relationship is a living ecosystem. It needs care, attention, and skills to keep growing through every stage of life. That’s exactly what we’ll practice together. Over time, couples that work with me notice having: • Honest conversations, even when they’re difficult. • More laughter, affection, and everyday moments of joy. • Intimacy that begins long before the bedroom. • A partnership where you’re on the same team. • A home that feels calm, connected, and welcoming. • A family culture your children will carry into their own relationships. ## Most of us were never taught how to create a great relationship. We learned by watching the relationships around us. Some of those lessons helped. Others followed us into adulthood and got in the way of the relationships we want today. Using Relational Life Therapy (RLT by Terry Real), we’ll first understand *why* the same moments keep repeating between you. But we won’t stop there. I’ll coach you in real time, slowing the conversation down, helping you notice what’s happening between you, and guiding you to try something different in that very moment. Rather than simply talking about your relationship, you’ll practice new ways to communicate, repair, listen, and advocate for what you want. #### **The goal isn’t simply to understand your relationship. It’s to experience it differently.** [Connect with me](https://evagreene.com/contact) > #### *“Our first session with Eva was already so eye-opening. She has a very rare combination of warmth and clarity. Eva listens deeply, asks the questions that matter, and helps you get to the root of things very quickly. Working with her has been grounding, clarifying, and transformative for our long relationship.”* - T+A, USA ### Investment ### RLT Couples Coaching €150 / $170 · 60 minutes · incl. VAT Paid per session This work is months, not years. We meet weekly or every other week. [Book a free intro call](https://evagreene.com/contact) ## Wondering if this is right for you? We’re not in crisis. Is couples coaching still right for us? Absolutely. Many couples work with me before their wedding, after having children, or simply because they want to strengthen their relationship before bigger challenges arise. You don’t have to wait until things fall apart to learn the skills that help relationships thrive. My wife wants to do this. I’m not sure I do. That’s completely okay. In fact, it’s how many couples find me. Over the past two decades, I’ve worked with many men in leadership and high-pressure environments. I understand that not everyone wants to spend an hour talking about feelings, and that’s not what our sessions are about. We focus on what’s happening between you, practice new ways of responding in real time, and work toward what most people want: less conflict, more peace at home, and a stronger connection with the person they love. Will you take sides? Yes. Relational Life Therapy is different from many other approaches. If one of you is using a strategy that’s hurting the relationship, I’ll point it out and show you how to do things better. And if the other person is doing the same, I’ll challenge them too. I’m not interested in deciding who’s “right.” My job is to help both of you build a healthier relationship together. How is coaching different from psychotherapy? **Many of my clients have spent years in psychotherapy before coming to me. They often tell me they understand themselves well, but still find themselves repeating the same patterns.** Understanding yourself is important, but insight alone doesn't always lead to lasting change. My coaching integrates **Relational Life Therapy (RLT)**, an approach that explores the lasting impact of childhood and relational trauma while focusing on creating meaningful change in the present. Our sessions are active and collaborative. I'll often pause the conversation, coach you in real time, help you notice old patterns as they happen, and practice different ways of responding so those changes become part of your everyday life. Coaching is designed to help create meaningful change in your life and relationships. It is not a substitute for psychotherapy. What makes your approach different? My coaching combines over 20 years of working with people, teams, and relationships with the practical, relational approach of Relational Life Therapy (RLT by Terry Real).   That means I understand not only relationships, but also stress, careers, leadership, and the pressures modern couples face. > #### *"My partner and I were almost breaking up when we found Eva. We loved each other but couldn’t stop fighting. And when we fought, we both said things that really hurt each other. With Eva, we learned how our past was actually the one hurting our relationship. Eva taught us how to speak from what we learned is our ‘Wise Adult.’ We still have work to do, but we finally feel closer to each other, and there’s more peace at home."* - M+S, Germany > #### *“My wife and I were already many years in therapy, but it felt mostly like sitting in the pain, not learning how to stop hurting each other. With Eva, it was something else. She helped us really see how much we damaged each other, but without giving us shame. She taught us to stop before it becomes too much, to react from a better place, and finally to speak about the things we put under the carpet for so long. For the first time, we didn’t only understand the problem. We could actually start changing it.”* - B, Germany ###### Let’s start with a conversation. 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